Party Etiquette

Last week saw the end of the first 2011 semester. This final week means a lot to students, with these meanings ranging from “finally done with this course” to “I ain’t taking that lecturer again”. It’s also the time when the most memorable of parties are held. The feeling of not working the next day is euphoric and everyone loves it. I wouldn’t go as far as saying that it’s irreplaceable though. So a couple of my friends and I got together to hold a party. I'm not rich...yet. The best way for me to do this was to pool resources, so we did. Invites were dished out and the venue was set for the raiding. It was the second time we held that party so we knew what to expect…..or did we? I’ve been to a number of parties and what still shocks me is neither people’s questionable fashion nor their +1(s). It’s;

1. Timing

There IS such a thing as coming late. I kept receiving calls from people at 0100hrs, asking whether the party was still on. The last time I checked, house parties start at 2200hrs (give or take an hour). Some people call 2 hrs into the party to announce their journey to the party. Don't we all know at least one such person? What’s acceptable is coming fashionably late. Infact, it’s highly advisable if one is looking to stand out at a party. You’ll also have to dress the part. Every party has that hype moment and I try not missing them. Pole pole sio mwendo

 

2. Endowment

If you’ve been invited to a party, GO WITH A GIFT IN HAND. They come in many forms. It can be a bottle of alcohol or a chaser (non-alcoholics). Your +1 is NOT an endowment. Some people make exceptions where that +1 is someone very hard to come by. Doesn’t mean it’s acceptable though. It’s insulting to the host if you’ve been invited to the party, show up empty handed and be the first to criticize the event. It’s rude and you should to be kicked out!!

 

3. Dress-code

Everyone has a right to dress as they please, provided it’s acceptable to everyone. Some arrive fashionably late with a gift in hand, but a hitch in their attire kills it. I'm no fashionisto and I’ve fallen victim to this a number of times, but it something I’m working on. Some people however, insist on dressing in curtains and PJs. Most house parties will see you sleep for about 4hrs at the venue before everyone heads back to their homes. Come dressed in curtains and they won't be drawn :-)

I had a great time last Saturday. The cramp twins (Frank & Tony) livened up the place, Njomz kept the drinks flowing, music was at par with NEEMA law, a good way all-in-all to bring the semester to an end. Did I mention that I spent Kshs.700 that night? Kshs.300 went to buying fruits and Kshs.400 into the pool of alcohol. Ever tried mixing fruits with alcohol? :-)